Loyal (or otherwise) readers, I haven’t forgotten about you. I’ve simply entered a phase of my two young sons’ lives that I can only call ARE YOU KIDDING ME?! While I get that straightened out (along with a little more childcare so I can write, which is harder to do with a six-month-old than a […]
ADHD
The Sound of My Brain is Boing, Boing, Boing.
Becca Colao ADHD, Baby, Executive Function, Inattentive, Mommy, Music 3 Comments
The comedy to me is that I forgot that it was time to put the baby down for a nap. This makes me laugh because it was kind of the answer to all of my problems this morning. See, at the moment i have a different type of schedule each day; some days I have […]
Some ways to connect with people
Becca Colao ADHD, Social "Skills", Tips 0 Comments
Following up on my last post, where I talked about some of the difficulties people with ADHD have in making friends, I wanted to mention some ways I have seen that can work well to build friendships and community. Clubs. I joined and attended a Toastmasters club for several years. I didn't become close friends […]
ADHD and difficulty making friends #3
Becca Colao ADHD, ADHD Coaching, Social "Skills" 1 Comment
3. People with ADHD have difficulty knowing or remembering relevant boundaries in relationships. It is much harder to have a good relationship with someone if you forget or don't realize (or impulsively ignore) that you don't want to share certain personal information with them. Also related to this is the fact that not everyone needs […]
ADHD and difficulty making friends #2
Becca Colao ADHD, Social "Skills" 1 Comment
Continuing on from Sunday's post, here is my second point on ADHD and difficulty making friends: 2. People with ADHD seem to have difficulty making the distinction between different kinds of relationships. I think our culture at the moment makes this harder on us as well because we tend to lack community in our everyday […]
ADHD and difficulty making friends
Becca Colao ADHD, ADHD Coaching, Social "Skills" 3 Comments
I have been reading a really long discussion thread on www.womenwithadhd.com about the difficulty people (ok, in this case women) with adhd feel they have making friends. It reminded me of discussions I have had with coaching clients over the years and with the things I have learned myself about this topic. I wanted to […]